Monday, September 13, 2010

"Your'e my best friend"

"Don't walk in front of me, I may not follow.
Don't walk behind me, I may not lead.
Walk beside me and be my friend." Albert Camus.

There are two kinds of families in life - the one you are born to, and the one you choose for yourself. The second kind, in most cases, is the one we feel more open with, this family is consisted(gr. - no need for passive - consists of) of our closest friends. But what are true friends? In this essay, I will present my opinion about the qualities that a true friend should have.

In my opinion, a true friend should be capable of listening. Sometimes, it is even more significant to just listen than to give a good advice. The reason for that derives from every person's profound need to be listened, to feel that there is a withness to his life - someone who dermonstrates concern for one's sake.

Furthermore, A friend should be the first one to stand by in hard times. When making a mistake, or going through times of trouble, it can be very hard to recover without that person who consoles you, believes in you and shows his fidelity to you. Moreover, one of the most significant values in a friendship is a healthy communication. When things are not talked with understanding and in a cordial manner, there will not be frankness and a feeling of amenity between the friends.

In conclusion, I believe that a friendship is based on mutuality. If one wishes to have a great friend, a person who listens, helps, consults and consoles, first he will have to be this friend. Only by being a good and supportive friend, will he deserve to have such a friend.
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Daphna

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